I have enjoyed spending time with J.C. Carson, and Brayden. They have been through alot and don't even know it. They know that there daddy is away and trying to recover but don't really know the seriousness of what is taken place. I know some don't even care what the boys are going through but I do. I know some don't like the fact that I'm down here in Spartanburg with the boys but I'm sorry they feel that way cause you cant please everyone and they don't know what its like cause they have never been in this situation so until you go through what my family has went through these past 6months then you can express your opinions. I am a mother and my kids need me right now so if I want to stay as long as I want and Jason is fine with that then NOBODY has a right to say anything. I am a grown adult and I choose what I do with my life and Jason and myself make the choices of what we do so all I can say to everyone else is to just BUTT OUT!!!
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Quality Time with the boys.....
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Lindsey, I went through so much stuff when Richard was in Afghanistan. People are quick to judge when they've never walked in your shoes. If I wasn't online talking to Richard 24/7 while he was gone, then I wasn't a good wife. It was crazy! First of all, that's not feasible and second of all my kids needed me! They were affected by the deployment too! It's actually healthy for you and Jason to have a little time apart. Sitting in a hospital room up underneath each other 24/7 takes a toll on both parties involved. I know that Jason appreciates everything you've done for him, but I know he also appreciates the mommy you are. The magic of the holidays is so special to children. Any good mommy wouldn't want her children to share this time of the year with anyone else. If anybody should have shared the joy of Christmas morning with your boys it should have been you. I'm proud of you for having the courage to say you needed a break and that you love your boys enough to come home and spend quality time with them. Email me and we'll take the kids to the park or something while you're home! We're praying for you, Jason, and the boys! Just so you know, I cried like a baby the other day after the party. It was such a blessing to see how excited J.C. was to have his mommy at school. You made that boy's day and it was just what I needed at that moment. I was so happy to have shared that moment with both of you! God bless you girl!
Leah, I do not know you, but I have met Tyler at the ball field. Your comment is so right. I can't say much bc people do not like my comment I leave on Lindsey's blog. But you have so hit it. Lindsey is a wonderful mama, and I too have seen the joy in the boy's eyes when they see Lindsey. I hate they can't see jason.
Thanks Leah and Becky for the kind words I really apericate it and that someone else knows how it is when someone is judging when they have no clue what people are going through. WE ARE MOTHERS and our kids ARE IMPORTANT. So let them talk/judge all they want cause I'm enjoying this time with my kids.
No one can judge you when they haven't walked in your shoes. No one knows what choices they would make. Opinions are like rear-ends...everyone has one. Don't let it get to you. Enjoy your time at home. We love you.
The question is??? Who's business is it anyway. Wow, you have got to be kidding me... You know when I moved out people were talking crap about me.. I hope I have proved them all wrong. But Lindsey.. You know what. You do what you feel you should do. You can't be in two places at the same time.. Follow your heart.. Your boys need you too. Jason is in good hands. Jason does not need you to be stressed out... Don't worry about this crap. No matter what you do you can't stop people from talking about you.. You are a young woman who has been handed this situation. You didn't ask for it.. I think you have done extremely well. Most people could not handle what you have been dealing with. That is why God chose your family.. God knew you were a strong woman, and he knew you would come out of this being even stronger. He knew you and Jason had strong Christian families behind you to help support you. You know, you don't even have to explain to nobody what you do, well other than who is taking your place while you are gone. Which would be your immediate family and Jason's family. As long as everyone is getting taken care of, what does it matter where you are at... OKay I am through venting... Slow down Lindsey.. Lean on the Lord... Find joy everywhere you look.. I love you and Jason and I am praying for God's hand to touch you both.
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